My husband is a practical romantic.
Now, you may wonder, is there such a thing? But, of course. He is the guy who will not remember birthdays and anniversaries. He is the chap who will have reminders on his Google calendar for events and occasions and still turn to me and ask if an important day is around the corner.
He is the man who will not gift me anything on my birthday or anniversary. But, you know what he does? He gives me more.
Soon after we were engaged, he picked up this elegant, fine and bewitching bracelet for me. The thought, the love and the prettiness of that piece left me breathless with excitement. I received it a full two months before my wedding. I wore it with pride and love, bursting from my heart. I was thrilled that I had such an attentive, loving chap in my life.
The following year, on my birthday, he gave me nothing. I was disappointed, to say the least. But, I told myself, this happens after marriage. Less than a week later, he gifted me two sarees. I was overjoyed and asked him, ‘But why are you giving me these now? My birthday was a week ago.’
He looked at me and said, ‘If I were to give you something on that day, when you obviously expect it, where is the fun in that? Don’t you know that I love you all through the year and not just on your birthday or anniversary?’
And, just like that,in that moment, my world changed. My perception grew and my heart overflowed. I understood what the art of giving really meant.
It means that his love for me is not bound by time and material things. It is Love itself.
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Written for the A to Z 2014 Challenge
G is for Gifting
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Today, it is my pleasure to recommend a blogger I came to know very recently.
Tom Mac Innes blogs about his life as an educator. His posts will fill you with understanding and perspective. Read his very interesting post on Gender stereotyping and how to evade it
Also linking this to theΒ Ultimate Blog ChallengeΒ for April
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You have got a good man woman…! Such practical romantics are the ones worth spending our lives with!
Random Thoughts Naba
Aww so sweet!! Intelligent and romantic your man! π
I love this story! There is so much more thought put into surprises.
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Awww sounds like a good man. You're lucky π
Wow ..how sweet …love all the way ….
Hey thats a sweet one, What a good point ur husband made π
Very wise man — how happy that must have made you.
Indeed I am blessed, Naba. And I give thanks everyday π
Isn't he, though? π
Thanks for stopping by, Jessica π Yes, surprises are always welcome π
He is the best! Thanks, MS!
And I am awed that you stopped by, PB π
Absolutely, Sushree! Thank you π
Isn't it? Makes us look at gifting and love in a whole new way π
More happy than I have the words to express, Carol. Thank you π
Isn't life fun when we can expect the unexpected?!! I love that your hubby does that for you!
This is truly touching. Gifting everyday, and when you least expect it, makes it all the more joyful. It will give him immense joy, too, to see your happiness π This post is full of love π
Can drive one crazy.. these practical romantics. Nice term by the way. Sounds a lot like mine. Quite true actually.. the thing about loving everyday!
You two are definitely meant for one another. You understand him, and that is so important. they say there is a soul mate for everyone, I believe you've found yours. Nice heartfelt story.
Aaaww- I loved your story today:-) Made me warm at heart to read.. and so true:-) Lovely guy you've got there – you sound very ..right for each other:-)Long live love:-) He he
Awww!! Such a precious post! π
and the necklace is lovely!! π
lucky you .. lucky husband .. his wife understands …
dropping in from the A-Zchallenge…. surprises are always so special…! it's the perfect way into each other hearts!
Wow! You sure are a lucky woman, Shailaja! Touch wood! And I liked the term practical romantic! π
The doting mom has a doting husband too π Loved reading this story of love everyday.
Beauty Interprets, Expresses, Manifests the Eternal
I love that you appreciated is late gift and the lesson you gained from it. I am always curious about couples that spend more than they can afford on each other for birthdays and other celebrations, I'm somewhat of a practical romantic, and prefer to save for holidays together something we need too.
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How nice! π May you always stay blessed like this!
G for goosebumps :O I got goosebumps reading this!! :O Awww.. such a lovely couple *hugs shailaja and blows air kisses*
~S(t)ri
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Smile, it makes (y)our day!
That is one of the best things about him, Lucy π Thanks for visiting!
Glad you could see the love, Sreeja π Thanks!
Why am I NOT surprised, Pheno? Meena, watch out π
Yes, I kind of like the term myself. Coined it in a moment of inspiration π
I am not sure I believe in soulmates. I think every relationship needs love and work and I am sure I have put in a fair amount of both into this one π But, I appreciate the sentiment. Thank you for stopping by π
Right for each other π Yes, that about says it, Eli π Thank you!
awww how sweet <3 may this sweetness last till the end π
Thanks! It is a bracelet π
Yes she does π Thank you for stopping by.
That's a lovely bracelet and I liked the way your hubby explained gifting someone on days other than the special occasions π
'Practical Romantic' – what a term !! Such a sweet post π
Super term – 'practical romantic'! What does V think of it? This is such a lovely post. Surprises keep the romance alive, don't they!
I dont risk that.. cause i kepp conveniently dropping hints abt my upcoming bday π
aww that is so sweet π I loved how you described him as practical romantic π
The bracelets looks fabulous π
I have to agree π Thanks for being here, princess π
Lucky is right,Shilpa π And blessed. Thank you π
A 'practical' comment: both of you are lucky (or, have you created that luck?) that you see eye to eye on the subject of 'practical romance'!
A nice and sweet read…Wish you all the best.
Love is timeless and grows beyond dates. Sweet post:)
Indeed she does. Thanks Beloo π
Whoa! So he read your comment on my post yesterday? How sweet! Lovely to hear this, Shalini π
Yes, Ida. I agree that spending time together is way more important than material things. I like the idea of saving for holidays together.
And may I always be blessed to have your company, Vidya π Many hugs to you π
Thank you Stri. You know how to make my day π
Thank you for that sweet wish, Swathi π
Thanks Prasanna π No wonder I love him so π
Thank you for this nice post that helps put things in perspective.
http://marypurpari.blogspot.com/2014/04/g-is-for-green-man.html
This is so pure and touching! My parents share the same bond. I feel I will learn these things when my time comes. Stay blessed and keep posting such things. Our perception grows too along with yours! π
Lol! Reminds me of my marriage! Great post btw, got me smiling from the beginning till the end… N one more thing, not to burst your bubble…perhaps he did forget your birthday π
Aww, that made me smile! There's something so special about getting gifts, “just because.” My hubby forgot my birthday last year and I was crushed but then put it into perspective – he had just started his new job and really, was only an hour late wishing me Happy Birthday. So, I got off my high horse and was able to appreciate him and all he does again =P
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How lovely. That made me smile! While I think I would still be a bit disappointed by no remembrance on birthdays and anniversaries, the surprises would be awesome too. β₯
That was so cute….
Blessed you are…
Thank you Jyotsna. Happy to please π
V doesn't read my blog, except on occasion or when I thrust the Tablet under his nose and say 'Read'. Then, he responds with a smile or 'you should get a book published.' π
I used to do that and then got tired of it π
Thanks Rajlakshmi!
Lucky girl, you! What happens this birthday? π
Practical romantics! i like the way you coined that….the world seems to be full of them!
Awwww. Seriously awww. 'Nuff said.