And the madness begins…-The hunt for the preschool

And the madness begins…-The hunt for the preschool

So, you have a young child, the apple of your eye, the core of your existence, the light in your life.Chances are you haven’t even begun to think of the “S” word yet. I am talking about “school”.

Most parents are thinking, “School? My baby?Too young,I say! I mean she has just started crawling after all-well, maybe she walks a bit too- but the point is, she is still a little person. School is for big kids, right?”

I say, “think again”.

My lil one ,Gy, just completed two years this July and I was sitting back, saying to myself, ‘Hmm, another year and she can go to preschool”.

Then, a casual remark from a friend triggered the hunt. She said, ‘ Have you thought about which school your daughter will be attending from grade 1’? I was a bit amused and pointed out that Gy was only 2 and grade 1 was 4 years away. She looked at me wryly and said, “Trust me, the hunt starts early. Where they do their pre-schooling determines which school will admit them into first grade”.

I sat up and looked her in the eye. She was serious.The scouring had to begin, and soon!

So, armed with the easiest weapon at my disposal, the Internet, I commenced the search. My detailed post on the list of preschools/daycare/montessori schools is now available for reading.

There were a few things to consider:

Pre-school vs Montessori:In the preschool idea, it is pretty straightforward. The child is usually admitted around 3 years of age, to the nursery or pre-kg stage.Then she graduates to kg-1 and then kg-2. Most often, kids who attend preschool can exit at any stage, post a year or two, and get into other schools for their ‘higher studies’. However, in the montessori method, the program is designed for a full 3 -year schedule. The idea behind this is that each kid learns at her pace and is not pushed to conform to the syllabus as set forth by a school. Here, kids have more interactive activity and learning is on a ‘no-pressure’ basis. Most montessori trainers recommend that the child completes the entire 3-year programme,as then she will get the maximum benefit from the methodology. This means that the child is eligible for grade 1 from the age of 6, having completed 3 years of montessori. Something to think about!

Also, many schools slap on the label “montessori” irrespective of whether they actually follow the method.

A certified list of montessori schools in Bangalore by the Indian Montessori Centre is viewable at this link. They give a list of the schools, some have a small write-up and all have full contact details such as phone number,address and website.

Proximity:

This may seem like a negligible factor, but in reality, it isn’t. We don’t want our young kids to be travelling for 2 hours one-way on a bus to spend 3 hours in a playschool.That kind of defeats the entire purpose.
So you may want a school that is, ideally, walking distance from your home/place of work.

If there isn’t one that close by, look for a good school within a 3 or 4 km radius.Schools are everywhere these days. Make sure that you can either pick-up and drop the child yourself (by pvt vehicle) or ensure that the school has transport facility.Check with other parents as to how reliable and safe the transport option provided by the school has been so far.

Fees/Facilities:

“Schools in my day never charged this much”, is a common refrain you are likely to hear from your peers and your parents. The era has changed. More and more schools are now charging a minimum fee of 25k per year for a 3-hour stint at the preschool stage. The higher end schools can range from 75k to 1.5 lakhs per year. (Yes, we are talking about preschools, not IIT admissions;)

My advice is have a budget which commences at 25k per year. Then,you can modify that according to your personal income/expense capability.

Check to see what are the facilities that come within the fee structure.
If the following are included/not:

  • Snacks/lunch/milk
  • Transport
  • Books/other supplies
  • Field trip charges/celebrations of festivals
  • Medical aid/first aid on campus

Curriculum:

Although this depends largely on whether you go the preschool way or choose the montessori method, do demand to see the curriculum that your child will be following.
When the child is close to 5.5 years of age, a certain degree of writing must be incorporated into their daily routine, as the Grade 1 demands are higher than the KG/M-3 stages. So ensure that it is part of the curriculum at that level.

However, one criticism I have heard from teachers and other academicians is that parents these days try to pressure the teachers into giving pre-schoolers ‘homework’ so that they are ready for the rigours of school.

Parents, please note; teachers know what they are doing. And yes, you do have a say in what you want your child to do, but don’t tell the teacher how to do his/her job. Also, do not impose homework on a child when the situation does not demand it. It will only encourage rote learning and kill creative thinking.

Feedback from other parents:

Whichever school you decide upon, ensure that you get the feedback about the facilities, the teachers, the support staff,the school environs,the transport system, the food quality (if lunch/snacks are offered by the school), the policies that the school follows regarding taking snapshots at school events (I am not kidding-check it out! ).

And make sure that this feedback comes from parents of kids who are already in the school.

That about sums it up for the first part of the hunt;) More on the names of the schools, the reviews is already up on my blog, and will be updated regularly.

Happy hunting!

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  1. ah!…complete research.. It’s an amazing blog. I think it’ll help most parents to find what they are looking for. We had an immensely tough time while looking for a good school for our daughter. We finally decided on Inventure Academy for a lot of things they promise and deliver. Ananya has no complaints so far. So it’s been a huge relief for us.

  2. I have an 18 month old toddler and i have started upon the task of deciding a play group for her when she turns 2 next may…but i’m so confused. it helped me after reading your blog. I was esrlier thinking abt GEAR montessory so that it will be easy for her to get into std 1 in the same school. But your review on Podar kids and euro kids have also tempted me to check it out once. some feel that 2 yrs is too young for her to join a proper montessory…

  3. Hi Chinmayee,2 years may be a bit young for montessori. In most montessori schools,I think M1 starts at 2 years and 6 months. So, next November may be a good option for you to consider.If you are looking for just play group then you can consider the regular play schools close to home even from about 1 year and 10 months.

  4. My children goto Inventure. My little one started in 1st grade and now she is in 3rd. The thing I love about this school is amount of activities my daughter participates in. Which is versy surprising from a school this size. They also deliver on academics because she is reading Harry Potter books in 3rd grade. WOW!! She is doing power point. WOW!! I am very very happy and more important Anika is very happy with the school.

  5. Whats said about Inventure is true. They give a lot of exposure to the kids. I heard about the Intel Science fairs, trips to the planetarium, musems – followed by a write up about the trip, I am really impressed reading some of those articles. Also saw the straight As IGCSE results, kudos to the school.

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